How to be Confident While Talking with a Woman on the First Date

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One of the biggest problems men of any age faces is finding the confidence to talk to women. Every time they try to use conversation starters with a beautiful woman, they falter and look less than suave, despite how they really are

Some men will try telling you that they don’t know what to say and will just say whatever pops into their heads, however, this rarely works—especially if you have the confidence to pull it off. The truth is that when you have a good and intelligent conversation starter, and the confidence to go along with it, it can work wonders.

The trick isn’t so much about what you’re saying, but how. You can recite the most beautiful love poem, and do it in a way that shows that shows your vulnerable side. Of course, you could say something so off the wall, but you want to do it with confidence, look at the girl directly in the eyes and show that you’re in control.

Let’s face it, some men have confidence while other’s don’t. This doesn’t mean that those who do have it was born with it. Many times these men learned how to become more confident over time. One noticeable difference between someone who has confidence with the ladies and someone who doesn’t is that they don’t experience rejection, but that they’re not afraid of failing. All men get rejected; even those who are very sure of themselves and good looking.

For those men who don’t take rejection as a personal insult will keep trying over and over, thus gaining more experience with talking to women. Practice makes perfect, right? The only way to learn is by keep trying, no matter how many times you fail.

Keep talking to women of all kinds. It doesn’t matter how old they are (just make sure they are of legal age at least!), it doesn’t matter their socio-economic background, or how attractive they are. Just talk to them! Also, don’t worry about ulterior motives or hidden agendas. If you want to get her contact information, it’s completely up to you. The whole point of this is for you to feel comfortable asking for that information. The more confident you feel, the easier you will find it to be you when you’re in front of a woman you are really interested in.

One more thing, instead of opting for pickup lines, try a conversation starter that makes her think. Ask her questions that will require more than a single word answer. Not only will this give you a chance to learn more about her, but it will also give her the chance to ask questions about you!

If you don’t want to ask a question, make an open ended statement. Why? Because it gives her the opportunity to add on to the statement, or ask you why you feel a particular way. Both are excellent options when trying to talk to a woman.